Let’s have a Conversation about Conversation Part 3 by Pastor Michael Podhaczky

I heard the story of a boyfriend who, while using FaceTime, persuaded his girlfriend to take a naked photo of herself and send it to him. When he broke up with her he put the photo on Facebook. The photo ended up on a porn site somewhere in cyberspace.

You are joking, right?

No, this really happened.

So, let me ask you, ‘Do you know the personal, social and economic implications of the Digital Age that can affect your life and conversation?’ As a Christ-follower you can actually be part of the communication technology superhighway and use it for the glory of God. The important thing is using it in the right way, and not allowing it to use you.

Let’s look at some of the personal, social implications of not using the communication technology for the glory of God.

a.    Sexting

Sexting is a term created by the media, meaning “…sending provocative or sexual photos, messages or videos, using a mobile phone, but it can also include posting this type of material online.”[1] Some private and social implications of sexting:[2]

·       Once the images and messages are sent, they can often spread rapidly

·       If posted online, they are almost impossible to control

·       They can cause embarrassment now and in the future

·       Family, friends, future partners and employers may have access to them

·    It can lead to cyber-bullying, sexual harassment or at its extreme, assault

Is there safe sexting? No, there is no such thing as safe sexting! But, you can choose not to go down that road and get caught up in the enemy’s web. Instead choose to use the communication technology in a wholesome manner. As a Christ-follower, only upload material that you would be comfortable for anyone to view.

b.    Netiquette and Internet Bullying

Communication technology can be used to harm and disrespect, causing damage to others. This may lead to psychological, emotional or reputation consequences for both the offenders and victims, even to the point of suicide. Too many use the net with an attitude of bitterness, explosive rage, anger, harsh words, and intentions of slandering others.

But, you can behave in a way that would bring glory of God, i.e. using manners, instead of insults, swearing, rumours etc. Remember that you need to glorify your heavenly Father when using any communication technology and,

⁵ “Live wisely among those who are not believers, and make the most of every opportunity.      ⁶ Let your conversation be gracious and attractive (seasoned with salt) so that you will have the right response for everyone” (Col 4:5-6 NLT).

Pause in His presence for a moment and think this over… To be continued.

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[1] “Cyber (smart): Sexting. A Pamphlet. (Australian Communications and Media Authority, Australian Government).

[2] “Cyber (smart): Sexting. A Pamphlet. (Australian Communications and Media Authority, Australian Government).